Oct 2, 2007

cat whisperer

Why is it that house pets always seem to stick closest to the person that cares the least about them?

It has become quite obvious lately that the cats of the house have taken to following me around. Now Tigger, the cat we have had for years, has always been "my cat." By this I mean that he only listens to me, only comes out when I am around, and is never less than five feet from me at all times. If I am not home he goes into deep hiding. However, he pops out again as soon as I enter the house. In our house, to the feline population, I am clearly the Alpha Male.

If you remember back to last year, we clearly had it out for Tigger enough to bring him home a cuddly new enemy. Since moving into our new house, they have worked out the territory situation enough to become quasi-friends. Now don't get me wrong, you'll never see them entwined together taking a nap. But they will tolerate each other's presence in the same room, and can even be found eating out of the same dish at the same time once in awhile.

Unfortunately for me, this newfound friendship means that I now have TWO shadows following me around the house. They are always there. ALWAYS! I have sadly become neutral territory where they are both free to visit. We have a den where they are not allowed to be, so if I am in there they sit in the hallway outside the room. I woke up the other morning and they were both sitting on the bed staring at me. It was creepy.

The thing is, I don't often pay them much mind. I rarely pet them or play with them. They usually get on my nerves. I can't stand the shedding. I don't like them sleeping in my chair. But there they are. ALL THE TIME. The rest of the family would gladly give them all the attention they desire, but they don't care. They would rather tail me all day long. No wonder my family has taken to calling me "The Cat Whisperer."

Sep 27, 2007

floating beneath the surface

Have you ever lost your way? Forgotten who you are?

I have been so blocked and unable to put my thoughts into words. Sometimes putting things down makes them too permanent for me, and I have always been scared of that. Once it's out there you have to face it and own it and deal with it. I guess that is probably what I need to do, I just don't always want to do it.

This weekend I am missing a scrapbook weekend and I am truly sad to not have gone. There are some crazy, amazing people there! I can only imagine that the fun and laughter I would have had would have done me a world of good right now. For some reason I was just not able to make it happen this time. I will definitely be committing myself to the spring weekend.

I think I am ready to get out there and have some fun now. Please, for the love of sanity, come and drag me out. I am sure that will be the only way.

Aug 22, 2007

you know you're having a crappy day when.....

You KNOW You're Having a Crappy Day When.....


Stepping in cat puke is not even remotely the worst thing that happened to you all day.


'Nuff said.

Aug 15, 2007

just two things

JUST TWO THINGS

Two names you go by:

1. Tosin
2. Miriam

Two things you are wearing right now:

1. pink shirt
2. sparkly flip flops

Two things you would want (or have) in a relationship:

1. comfort
2. laughter

Two things you like to do:

1. scrapbook
2. learn

Two things you want very badly at the moment:

1. lunch
2. a transfer at work

Two things you did last night:

1. cooked up a storm
2. watched Big Brother

Two things you ate today:

I haven't eaten yet, so.....
1. milk
2. water

Two people you last talked to:

1. Molly
2. Les

Two things you're doing tomorrow:

1. going to work
2. ballet class

Two longest car rides:

1. Oklahoma to Massachusetts
2. Connecticut to Cincinnati and back

Two favorite holidays:

1. Christmas
2. Halloween

Two favorite beverages:

1. water
2. wine

Two things about me that you may not have known:

1. I always mean well, but it doesn't always translate.
2. I hate socks.

Two jobs I have had in my life:

1. Customer Service
2. Mom

Two Movies I would watch over and over:

1. Coming to America
2. Princess Bride

Places I have lived:

1. Here
2. There

Two of my favorite foods:

1. rice
2. steak